Personal Updates – 2008-06-22

// June 22nd, 2008 // Free Software, Jonathan, Project Mayhem

Early last month, I blogged about changes that I’d like to see in my life. I received some questions via email from some people over the last week about them (and I appreciate that a lot), and thought I’d do an update, since it’s just a bit over half-way time-wise.

Current progress:

  • At work: Stress levels have been greatly reduced, and it is going better. This might be due to an increase in staff, or a new project where things are going quite well. Either way, I’m not as stressed as I was a month and a half a go, and it’s great.
  • MOTU membership: I’m continuing to learn at a steady but slow pace, not nearly fast enough to become a MOTU over the next 5 weeks though. I think this might be one goal that I’m going to miss, but the MOTU’s are really cool people. Several members have offered me assistance. I owe it to them to step up a bit, and I’ll have to make some further changes in order to do that (more about this a bit later in the post)
  • Getting in shape: I lost 3KG’s, and gained 2KG’s again when I visited my home town last week! I think I lost most of that again, but in totality, I think I’m pretty much on target, and I’m satisfied with my progress here.
  • Work through the Simply Guitar handbook/DVD: I’m just about on target here as well. I’ve actually done it, but I need to practise what I’ve learned so far a bit more and revise. I’m planning to go for guitar lessons in August. One of my previous colleges have also offered to give me lessons, I think I will take him up on that.
  • Be less miserable: Oddly enough, this has been the easiest on the list. I can’t quite explain how, but since last week or so, I’ve just been feeling much better, and this just after I had a terrible flue. I guess I had some time to think a bit and make sense of the universe. I’d even go as far to say that I am happy at this stage.

There’s more…

  • Change of Northern Base: For the last year or so, I’ve been staying on-and-off at a guest house in Jo’burg. It’s been good, but our offices have moved and driving out so far has become time consuming and a waste of money (considering our ever-rising fuel prices). Today, I moved closer to work, the guest house was about 33km from work, I’m now 7km from work. I’m actually staying on a cottage on a farm that feels like it’s in the middle of nowhere. There are actual sheep, bulls and cows walking around just behind my room here. If you told me a year ago that I would be living on a farm in Gauteng, I would have probably laughed at you :) . This still doesn’t mean I’m staying here permanently. Home will always be in Cape Town. I can literally leave here any day. Don’t say I didn’t warn you.
  • Going vegeterian: I’ve gone vegeterian a few times in the past, just for short bursts, typically for a few days to a week at a time, can’t really remember why. About two weeks ago I decided to go vegeterian, or at least try, and see how far I can get. So far it’s been quite easy, I’ve eaten fish one evening, and ate some beef on a sandwich that someone made me, but besides that I managed to stay clear (I did say that I will allow fish now and again, especially in the beginning). I’ve been told that most vegetarians are so either because of moral or health reasons. I guess I tend to lean to the moral side, but I really don’t want to make it a moral issue. I suppose that officially, I don’t really have a reason. Hopefully, living amongst all these animals will help me keep on track :)

Thanks for the motivation from everyone who commented on the last post (and who sent emails). I even got a comment from my dad, I didn’t even know that he read my blog! At least it proves that apostrophe abuse is heriditary ;)

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2 Responses to “Personal Updates – 2008-06-22”

  1. Bugsbane says:

    Hey Jonathon,

    Great going! Remember, once you’ve done something once, doing it a second time is way easier (riding a bike anyone?), so the weight thing is a fabulous improvement.

    I just wanted to share too, as someone who’s been happily veg for 15 years now what really made things easy for me making the transition. Focusing on having options I love in my environment over self beating for screw ups / conscious exceptions. I found that if I felt like having something ‘off the plan’ that first I’d ask what veg option would be even more enjoyable and try that if I could, and then if I still felt like something non veg I’d do it, but plan on how to have something veg I’d like even more available next time. That way, over about 8 months I went 100% veg, but more importantly I never felt deprived until I got to the point where everything I wanted was veg anyway and staying the course became automatic.

    It all came down to “You won’t keep doing anything that feels bad long term. Find more enjoyable ways of doing something and change is automatic.”

    Oh and by the way, the other nice side effect of staying veg (with an emphasis on fresh produce) is that the weight thing tends to handle itself. :)

    Anyway, congratulations on all the fab progression. Thanks for hacking on free software for the betterment of us all, and all the best for the future.

    Go team Carter! :D

  2. Mackenzie says:

    Hey, I’m vegetarian because I just don’t like meat. I was pescatarian (meaning vegetarian + sea critters) for 2 years, and now it’s been nearly 2 years of regular vegetarianism.

    @bugsbane: no kidding on the weight handling itself. I keep being told to watch out for my metabolism kicking in as I get older because my junk food will be a problem. I reply that I need to eat junk food to keep my weight up. Between Christmas and March, without trying, I accidentally lost 10 pounds. Don’t know how it happens, but I have to watch my weight to keep from becoming underweight.

    I also get asked all the time what I eat if I’m vegetarian and don’t like salad (I like my food cooked usually). My response is “anything but white people food” :P Chinese, Japanese, Thai, Indian, Ethiopian…mmm…all kinds of delicious vegetarian food out there.

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